THALL I wish I understood how they negotiate who exports how much.
They don't negotiate! If there is a means of monitoring grid export (as Givenergy's does), then the individual inverters will output whatever they can get from PV but throttle back when the export limit is reached. Without a means of grid export monitoring, the inverters will output whatever they can harvest from PV which will either be consumed (house load or battery charging) or exported. If your plant has panels facing in different directions (eg W, S, E), the combined output would be limited by nature. If all the panels are the same orientation, output will only be limited by weather and time of year. If the installer commissioned plant that could exceed the DNO agreed limit, then they are outside the agreement.
pacemaker This is what I keep saying... the SE inverter connected to the panels cannot see the export or home usage. So even if they set an export limit, its useless because the inverter is in ignorant bliss of what its exporting, its just generating.
You haven't actually said how much PV you have, or their orientation and the rating of the SE inverter. It's feasible to have >3.68kWp PV installed E or W with a suitably sized inverter because with that orientation, the array is unlikely to exceed the 3.68kWh DNO limit. However, if you have 8kWp S facing and an 8kW SE inverter, the installation could exceed the G98 limit of 3.68kWh. If the inverter output exceeds 3.68kW, it will have been type tested to G99 and the DNO agreement would not have been done under G98. I get that you can't understand how the inverter is free to output whatever it can harvest from the PV array without any monitoring of export, but what is the array size and orientation and the inverter rating/type testing?